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Thursday, September 3, 2009

Sam Counseling in Cempaka: Session 1

In order to get a place to stay in Cempaka next semester, I would need 10 cops for my collage activities. My first one was the Merdeka Exhibition, second is our Cempaka general meeting and this counseling is my third cop. Thus, don't get it wrong, Sam is still Sam. I have no psychological problem. Haha

My impression and perception towards the term counseling is bad and the session here in Cempaka just confirmed it. Why? 5 reasons.
  1. My perception of counseling is equal to waste of time & resources. They only hear out our problem and give advise based on their thinking and understanding. Thus, where's the point, they are still human and the answer they gave I already have but mine alternatives they might not have it. I tell the counselor this thinking and they were unable to change this thinking.
  2. The counselor here is just students and they are inexperience. (obvious from their style of talking) Lol must be repeat seniors.
  3. Their reliability and code of conduct is questionable (no be able to trust). No humans can be trust, I only trust myself.
  4. The counselor late at my first session. Even there is a notice of change of time from the counselor but time changing shows poor time management. I hate to wait for people, people can wait for me but I can't take waiting for others.
  5. The counselor fail to present him/herself because the whole conversation is garbage. He/she can't even prompt me to talk. Giving the lousy excuse that this session is for me and I'm the one who talk, they only listen. No comment as there is nothing to say already.
Last but not least, I ask a question,
What is the main objective of this counseling program?


Guess what the counselor say
:

First, we are just helping the student to get cops. Just like what you say, You came here for cops. Second, we want to help you out in any issues that you might have. But mainly is to help out student, no matter what and how - including getting cops.

Gosh. This is a disgrace to the field of counseling. How can they answer like that? They should tell me that the main objective is to get the student to know what is counseling or promote counseling, something like that and not something simple as cops. Zzz

Overall, this 30 minutes session is wasting time. Anyway, two more session to go and let's see what will happen. Anyhow, I give zero expectation to it. I already expected what to happen next. Thus let's wait and see.

To be continued...

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